Ingabe kufanele uqeqeshe imidlalo yengane yakho? Iseluleko kubazali abaqeqeshayo
Izingane namuhla zihilelekile emidlalweni ehlukahlukene futhi ziba nabaqeqeshi , amakamu okuqeqesha , futhi zibhekene nokulimala ngokweqile , kodwa izingane eziningi ezithinta ezemidlalo zisathola imfundo ngendlela endala-kumama noma ubaba.
Ukuqeqesha ingane ezemidlalo akuyona yonke umzali. Empeleni, akuyona abazali abaningi. Ngenkathi abanye abazali nezingane bejabulela ubudlelwane obudlala ukudlala nokudlala imidlalo ndawonye, izingane eziningi ziphikisana ngokungadingekile nezinselelo lezi zimo.
Izinzuzo kanye Nokuzibophezela Kwabazali Coaching Kids
Ucwaningo olulodwa lwabababa namadodana enkambiswaneni yomzali-njengoba-umqeqeshi lwathola izinzuzo ezihlukahlukene ezibonwayo, kodwa izinkinga eziningi ezingase zibe khona zalolu lungiselelo:
Izinzuzo
Amadodana abike ukuthi athola udumo olwedlulele nemfundo eyengeziwe, futhi bazizwa ukuthi obaba babo babeqonda kangcono amakhono abo kunabanye abaqeqeshi. Baye bathanda nokuchitha isikhathi sekhwalithi nabazali babo phakathi nemidlalo nemikhuba.
Obaba babika ukuziqhenya ngempumelelo yabo yamadodana futhi bajabulela ukuxhumana okuhle neqembu kanye nabanye abazali. Bajabulela ithuba lokufundisa amakhono kanye namagugu ngenkathi bechitha isikhathi sekhwalithi namadodana abo.
I-Cons
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izingane zibike izimpendulo eziningi ezingezansi zomzwelo, kuhlanganise nokucindezelwa okungeziwe nokulindelwe ukunqoba, nokuxabana okukhulu ekhaya. Baphinde babike ukungabi nokuqonda nokuzwelana nobaba, ukugxeka ngaphezulu amaphutha, nokuziphatha okungalungile uma kuqhathaniswa nalokhu okuqondiswe kubalingani babo.
Phakathi kwezinto ezimbi abababa ababike ngazo kwakungenakukwazi ukuhlukanisa kalula ukuba ngumqeqeshi ekubeni ngubaba. Babevame ukubeka okulindelwe okukhulu nokucindezela emadodaneni abo ukuba baphumelele futhi bathi babonisa ukuthanda amadodana abo.
Amathiphu Abazali Abaqeqeshi
Hlukanisa Umzali Okuvela Kumqeqeshi
Enye yezinselelo ezinkulu umbheki womqeqeshi womzali ukuhluleka ukuhlukanisa lezo zindima ezimbili komunye nomunye.
Lokhu kungadala ukudideka kwengane. Ukuze uqaphele lezi zindima, futhi uziphile ngokuzimela, qala ngokusebenzisa imvelo njengendlela yokuziphatha kwakho. Ungumqeqeshi uma usensimini, nomzali uma usekhaya.
Njengomzali, umsebenzi wakho ukuhlinzeka ngothando nokusekela okungenamthetho. Shiya izici zezinto ezenzeke emisebenzini nasemidlalweni ngemuva, bese uzama ukukhuluma ngezinto ngaphandle kwezemidlalo, njengeziko, abangane, nokuzilibazisa.
Phatha Ingane Yakho Ngokufanele
Uma usebenza njengomqeqeshi, kubalulekile ukuba ube nomgomo obala. Yiba nobulungisa futhi uqaphele ngamakhono omntanakho, futhi ugweme ukubonisa ukukhetha. Lapho bezama ukwenza lokhu, abanye abazali baya kude kakhulu nakwezinye izindlela futhi banzima ngokweqile ezinganeni zabo, ekugcineni zibuyela emuva. Ukuphoqelela noma yimuphi ingane kungadingekile kungabangela imiphumela emibi, kufaka phakathi ukuthukuthela okuthukuthele nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo efihlekile.
Khuluma Ngokukhululekile Ngengane Yakho
Cabanga ukukhuluma nendodana noma indodakazi yakho mayelana nesithakazelo sakho ekuqeqesheni iqembu. Uzizwa kanjani ngakho? Ungathola ukuthi ingxoxo evulekile, eqotho iyokwenza umqeqeshi we-coaching azuze nakakhulu kokubili.
Ukusungula Imithetho Yokuziphatha
's "uDkt Rich" uyazi kuqala ukuthi ukubeka ezinye izilindelo mayelana nokuziphatha kungenza izinsuku zemidlalo zibe nzima ukucindezela izingane nabazali bazo.
Wasebenzisa isu elilandelayo phakathi neminyaka emihlanu ye coaching baseball yamathimba endodana yakhe. "Ukubusa kwami kwakuwukuthi noma yimuphi umntwana onomzali wakhe owamemeza kumbhali wayezobe esebenzela wonke umdlalo. Angikaze ngibe nomzali okhamuluka kumbhali ngaphezu kwesikhathi esisodwa ngenkathi. umqeqeshi, ngoba indodana yami ayifuni ukuba ibhentshini, noma.) "
Futhi Qaphela: Yenzani Nezipho Zabazali Babadlali
Umthombo:
Kay Porter, Ph.D. I-Athletic Athletics, Human Kinetics, 2003
Weiss, MR, & Fretwell, SD (2005). Ubuhlobo bomzali-umqeqeshi / umdlali wezemidlalo emdlalweni wentsha: Ukuhleleka, ukuphikisana, noma i-conundrum?
Ucwaningo Lwekota Ukuzivocavoca Nezemidlalo, 76 (3), 286-305.