Abagijimi abanesimo esibucayi banikela amahora amaningi ukulungisa isimo, ukuhlonipha amakhono, ukuphelelisa amasu emidlalo yabo, nokuzikhandla, ukuzijwayeza, ukwenza. Futhi kuyiqiniso ukuthi ukuqeqeshwa okungokwenyama-kanye nethalente lendawo-kungathatha umgijimi kude.
Kodwa kuze kube manje. Uma ungumdlali noma uvele ujabulele ezemidlalo ukuncintisana, ukuthuthukisa isimo sengqondo esihle kungakusiza ukuphephe.
Imizwelo, kokubili ejabule futhi edabukisayo, ayinakuvinjelwa futhi iyadingeka, kodwa nayo ingathinta ukusebenza kwengqondo (ukuthi ucabanga kahle kangakanani), izinga lakho lamandla, nezinye izici zokusebenza kwakho ngokomzimba.
Uma ukungaboni kahle kwemithetho kulandela usuku-ngoba usebenza ngokulimala , uthi, noma ukugxeka umqeqeshi wakho-kungaba nzima kakhulu ukugubha ithemba elikusiza ukuthi uphumelele. Ngakho-ke uma ungathanda ukuthatha umsebenzi wakho wezemidlalo ezingeni elilandelayo, cabanga ngokuzama amanye amasu angqondo okuguqula ukungahambi kahle nokuqeda izinkolelo zokuzivimbela.
Thuthukisa i-Mood yakho
Uma usesimweni sokukhungatheka noma ubhekene nesimo sengqondo sokungathembeki, ungase ukwazi ukuletha ushintsho ngokuzifakela esimweni esijabulisayo. Esikhundleni sokugxila kunoma yikuphi izinkinga noma izinkinga ezikuhlahlela-mhlawumbe ushayele u-snag ekuqeqeshweni kwakho noma ulahlekelwa yi-streak-yenza into owaziyo ukuthi izokuphakamisa, ngisho noma ungazizwa uthanda it.
Vula umculo othile okhuthazayo. Hlangana nomngane ohlale ethanda. Dlala nezingane zakho. Hamba uye epaki yenja futhi ubuke ama-pups ekudlaleni.
Uma udinga ukulungiswa okusheshayo, vala amehlo akho uphinde ucabange ngomuntu noma into ehlala yenza ujabule futhi ujabule. Ukufanekisela lowo muntu noma into engase ibe ngokwanele ukuze ushintshe isimo sakho-okuzoshintsha ingqondo yakho.
Thatha isikhathi
Ukungabi nalutho akuhlali njalo kumthombo wangaphakathi noma womuntu siqu. Ngokuvamile sizithola sithinteka ngokujulile yizinto ezimbi esizizwayo noma ezifundayo ngalokho okwenzeka ezweni elisizungezile noma ngokukhathaza izithombe esizibonayo kuthelevishini noma ephephandabeni. Kulula kakhulu ukuvumela lezi zinhlobo zezinto ukuba zingene ezinhliziyweni zethu futhi zithole isimo sethu sengqondo nesokomzwelo.
Yiqiniso, kubalulekile ukuhambisana nezenzakalo zamanje, ngisho nezimbi, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzivikela ekudleni ngokweqile kolwazi oluphazamisayo. Thatha ikhefu ezindabeni ezingenayo. Dlulisa isikhathi esithile sosuku ngalunye ukuhambisana nezenzakalo zamanje, kodwa ungazivumeli ukuba uzame ukubuka futhi ulalele ulwazi olufanayo ngokuphindaphindiwe, noma uhlole ngokucophelela izibuyekezo. Uma kufanele ufunde noma uhlele okuthile, yenze isihloko somagazini mayelana nomdlali okhuthazayo noma i-sitcom ejabulisayo.
Khuluma Nakho
Ucwaningo oluqhubekayo lwezemidlalo yezemidlalo luqhubeka luthola ukuthi ukuzakhela ukukhuluma okuhle kungathuthukisa kakhulu ukusebenza kwezemidlalo. Izakhamuzi zengqondo zezemidlalo zivame ukuchaza lokhu kuxhumanisa ngokukhomba umqondo wokuthi imicabango yenza izinkolelo ezigcina izenzo.
Ukuzikhulumela okuhle kungathatha amafomu amaningi. Kwababantu abathile, ukukhumbula i-mantra emihle-inkulumo ethize noma umusho, noma ngisho negama elilodwa, njengokuthi "amandla" noma "ukugxila" -yindlela ephumelelayo yokuphatha imicabango futhi igweme ukungabi nalutho okungangena endleleni yokusebenza kahle .
Isu elifanayo lisebenzisa ukuhlola umzimba . Lokhu ngokuyisisekelo kusho ukucabanga ngesimo osikhuphisana ngaso futhi wenza kahle. Sebenzisa zonke izinzwa zakho-cabanga umsindo wexuku elihlabayo, iphunga emoyeni, ukuthi umhlabathi uzizwa kanjani ngaphansi kwezinyawo zakho noma ukuthi ibhola lizwa kanjani ezandleni zakho. Kukhona iqiniso elithile kumqondo wokuthi uma ungakwazi ukucabanga, ungakwenza, ngakho sebenzisa lokhu kuhlakanipha uma uphisana.