Ngesonto eledlule, ngithumele ibhulogi ibuza abafundi ukuthi ukukhuluphala kufanele kuhlukaniswe njengesifo futhi akusikho konke okwakumangalisa ezinye izimpendulo engizithola kubafundi bami, abanye babo ababekuhlelwa futhi abaningi babo abaphikisana nomqondo .
Ngokusobala, lokhu kuyinkimbinkimbi eyinkimbinkimbi engeyona emnyama neyomhlophe njalo, kodwa lokho engingakuthandi kuyisicaciso esicindezeleke kakhulu ukuba sinamathele ngokweqile noma kunzima kakhulu .
Njengoba omunye umfundi ephawula:
"Imicabango yami, abantu banamafutha ngoba banamavila, badla ukudla okungenamsoco, abazisebenzisi futhi bafuna ukusola omunye umuntu ngenxa yezinkinga zabo ezikhulu kakhulu ... Thatha umthwalo wakho siqu, udle ukudla okunempilo okungenziwanga, nokuzivocavoca."
Omunye umfundi empeleni ucabanga ukuthi abantu abaningi kufanele bahlehliswe, bethi:
"Ukukhuluphala kufanele kufakwe isithunzi. Akufanele kuvuzwe ukuxilongwa okuzohlinzeka ngezinzuzo zempilo. Thola ukuzivocavoca okudakiwe futhi udle ngokuhlakanipha - BAM! Uphulukiswa!"
Ngiyazi abantu abaningi abangavumelani nalolu hlobo lokubaluleka, kufaka phakathi omunye umfundi owaphawula:
"Ngiye ngilwa nenkinga yesisindo kusukela ngisemncane. Ngineminyaka engama-42 yokudla ukudla, ukuzivocavoca, ukulala nendlala, ngitshela ukuthi nginamafutha kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngisindayo kangakanani futhi ukushaywa isithunzi sami nokuzethemba kuye kwangithinta kakhulu umzimba nomqondo ... Umuntu othola umdlavuza wamaphaphu ekubhemeni uthola usizo, kungani kungenza kube nzima kunjengomuntu onjengami ukuthola usizo? "
Ngikholwa ukuthi sonke kufanele sithathe umthwalo wempilo yethu , kodwa njengomqeqeshi osebenze ngamakhasimende amaningi kakhulu kunamafutha amaningi, ngiyakwazi ukukutshela into yokuqala engathanda ukuthi wazi ngayo ngabo: Akusivila. Owesibini kungenzeka ukuthi ukunciphisa ukukhuluphala kunzima kakhulu kunokuba nje usebenzise nokudla okulungile.
Abantu abakhulu babhekene nezinselelo eziningana uma kuziwa ekulahlekeni kwesisindo, izithiyo umuntu oyisisindo ongakaze azidingeke azikhathaze ngokuthi:
- Ubuhlungu obungapheliyo - Ukuba ngokweqile kungabangela ubuhlungu obuhlangene, ubuhlungu be-back and more, okwenza kube kungakhululekile ukuhamba, nokuzivocavoca kancane
- Ukuthola izingubo zokuqeqeshwa ezifanelekayo
- Ukuthunjwa noma ukwesatshiswa ekuzivocavoca - Kuthiwani uma bengakwazi ukungena emishini? Ingabe kukhona umkhawulo wesisindo kumshini othile? Uma ukubhukuda kuyindlela engcono kakhulu, bayithola kanjani inhlanzi evumelana nayo? Bangena kanjani futhi baphume echibini uma ukuhamba kuyinkinga? Kuthiwani uma abantu bebheka noma behlekisa ngabo? Baqala kuphi?
- Ukuthola isisusa sokuqhubeka lapho bekwazi ukukwenza umzimba kancane ngesikhathi futhi ukulahlekelwa kwesisindo kuhamba kancane.
- Ukukhungatheka okukhulu kokuba nesisindo esiningi sokulahlekelwa nokuphila okuningi kangaka kushintsha ukuzinikela.
- I-Genetics - Yebo, sinomthwalo wemfanelo phezu kwalokho esikudlayo, kepha izakhi zofuzo zifaka isandla ekulahlekeni kwesisindo.
Lezo ezinye zezimpikiswano amaklayenti engiwakhulume ngazo eminyakeni edlule futhi, njengoba ngifunda izimpendulo ezivela kubafundi bami futhi ngizwa ukuthi abantu bathini, ngiyazibuza - Ingabe kunabantu abaningi kakhulu abangenakuqonda ukuthi bathanda ukuthini ube ngokweqile noma ukhuluphele?
Ingabe bayaphambanisa kakhulu lapho bethi abantu abakhuluphele nje bavilapha futhi kufanele bafunde ukuzilawula?
Okuningi mayelana nokuzivocavoca nokukhuluphala