Mhlawumbe Awuyena Uvilapha nje
Ingabe ukhuluphele? Unecala lokuqala nokuyeka izinhlelo eziningi zokudla nokuzivocavoca okungaphezu kwalokho ofuna ukukukhumbula? Uma kunjalo, ungase uzibuze ukuthi yini engalungile kuwe ... ingabe uyivila? Kunabantu abaningi abavilapha kuleli zwe, kodwa iningi lethu aliwi kulolo sigaba. Yingakho ungazivocavoca .
Kukhona uDeveli Omncane Ekhanda Lakho
Kukhona ithuba elihle ukuthi unamanye amazwi ekhanda lakho.
Lawa mazwi angabanye abavela kubazali bakho kuya kulowo mfana on TV ohlale ethi kuwe ungakwazi ukulahlekelwa isisindo ngemizuzu nje ngosuku. Izwi lakho elivelele kakhulu lingase libe nguDeveli Omncane. Uma ngabe uke waxabana nawe njengale, kukhona:
Wena : Isikhathi sokusebenza!
UDeveli omncane : Uh, angizizwa kangako. Ngikhathele.
Wena : Woza ... sesivele silahlekelwe ukuqeqeshwa kwethu izolo.
LD : Izinsuku ezimbili? Okubalulekile!
Wena : Kodwa njalo lapho sidlula ukuqeqeshwa, kuba lula ukungazivocavoca.
LD : Ngikhathele. Into yokugcina engiyifuna ukuyenza yindlela yokuzikhukhumeza, yokuthuthumela.
Wena : Ukukhathele kusuka? Ukuhlala phambi kwikhompyutha usuku lonke?
LD : Hayi, ukubonisa kwethu okuthandayo kuvuliwe ... awufuni ukuyibuka?
Wena : Hhayi ... Ngicabanga ukuthi singabuka i-TV bese sisebenza ...
LD: Yilokho engikhuluma ngakho!
Into elandelayo uyazi, uqhubekile embhedeni nge-cramp esandleni sakho kusuka ekufakeni isiteshi. Kwenzeka kanjani lokho?
Ukuqeda uDeveli Omncane
- Misa ukuphikisana. Kuzo zonke izizathu, uDeveli omncane uhlela, uphendule, "Ngisebenza noma kunjalo." Kungcono nokho, nje uthi, "Angilaleli! La la la la!"
- Khumbuza amaqiniso. Awusuke ukhathele ngokomzimba (ngaphandle uma unomsebenzi ongokomzimba), usuke ukhulelwe ngokwengqondo. Ukwelashwa okungcono kakhulu lokho kungukusebenza komzimba futhi, uma uqala , uzozizwa kangcono ... ngempela.
- Yilungele. Ukuba negijimi lakho lokuzivocavoca lisebenza futhi isikhathi sakho sokuzivocavoca singakusiza kakhulu ekusebenzelaneni noDeveli Omncane.
- Ungalokothi uhlale phansi. Uma usebenza emva komsebenzi, ungazivumeli ngisho uhlale phansi bese ubukela i-TV noma ukhulume ngokwakho ukuya ekhaya kuqala esikhundleni sokuzivocavoca. Uma udinga ushintsho, zama okuthile okunene, kodwa usebenza njengokwethenjelwa noma ukwenza ukukhanya, umsebenzi owanelisayo. Uma usebenza ekuseni, gqoka izingubo zakho zokuzivocavoca ngokushesha nje ukuthi awunaso isizathu sokusika umsebenzi wakho .
Manje, uye wabhekana namazwi ekhanda lakho. Isikhathi sokuthola ukuthi ungathanda kanjani ukuzivocavoca (ngempela, kungenzeka).
I-Blahs Yokuzivocavoca
I-Blahs yenzeke kithi sonke. Wena ujabule ukuhlela isonto elifanele lokuzivocavoca ngeSonto kodwa, ngoMsombuluko uza futhi ngokuzumayo umsebenzi wakho wokusa ekuseni uzwakala ngokumnandi kakhulu njengokuhlanza indlu yangasese. Kwenzekani kulolo daba? Ingabe uvilapha?
Akunjalo ngempela.
Uma ubungumuntu ovilapha kakhulu mhlawumbe ngeke ubakhathalele ukuthi uhamba yini emini noma udle i-Big Mac. Cha, lokho oyikho mhlawumbe wesabisa, mhlawumbe wesaba . Ukwesaba lokho:
- Ngeke ukwazi ukuya kude kakhulu . Kuthiwani uma ungayenza kuphela imizuzu emihlanu? Lame!
- Kuyoba nzima . Kuzodingeka ushintshe izingubo, khona-ke uzodinga ukuthuthumela (ugh). Amapayipi akho azoshisa, imilenze yakho izolimaza ... akukho ukubonga!
- Ngeke ufinyelele iziqondiso ezivezwe yi-ACSM: imizuzu engama-60 yokuvivinya umzimba izinsuku ezingu-5 ngesonto. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukwenza lokho, kungani ukhathazeka?
- Ngeke ube ophelele . Kuthiwani uma udlula ezinye izenzo zangempela 'zangempela' ngenkathi ukhuleka futhi uzikhukhumeza cishe amayela? Bazocabanga ngani?
Isidingo sokwenza kahle ... ukukwenza ngokugcwele ... ukusebenza kanzima kunakho konke okwenza kube nzima ukwenza kuqala. Kodwa, kufanele uqale ngezinyathelo zezingane.
Phinda uvuselele intshiseko
- Nciphisa umqondo wakho wokuzivocavoca. Ingabe umsebenzi = umsebenzi? Akudingeki. Usuvele usebenza usuku lonke ... kungani ungafuna umsebenzi owodwa onzima ukuwenza? Cabanga ngalokhu kanje: uhlale ehhovisi elihle kakhulu usuku lonke ulalele umphathi wakho, futhi manje unemizuzu engu-30 yonke ukuphuma lapho okwesikhashana. Lokho akusilo umsebenzi-lokho kuyi-sanity!
- Cela usizo . Ingabe ukhona umuntu osebenza noma umngane omethembayo? Batshele ukuthi unenkathazo ehambisana nokuzivocavoca futhi ubacele ukuba basebenze nawe.
- Khumbuza wena. Bhala phansi amanothi bese uwabeka kukhompyutha yakho, imoto yakho, izicathulo zakho ... yonke indawo. Khumbuza ngesiphakamiso sakho ("Ngizokuzivocavoca imizuzu engama-30 namhlanje") nokuthi kungani wenza ("Ngingathanda ukugqoka ihembe elingenamikhono kuleli hlobo").
- Yenza okusemandleni akho. Uma ungeke usebenze imizuzu engu-30 okwamanje, ngakho-ke? Hamba isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka futhi wenze okuningi kusasa. Kuyinto elula futhi konke kubalwa .
Manje, uthola ikhanda lakho ngokuqondile, kungani ungadlala nemidlalo eminingana engqondweni? Ukusebenzisa umcabango wakho kungafaka isisusa esincane ekusebenzeni kwakho ngalezo zinsuku lapho kunzima ukuthola ukuhamba kwakho kuhamba.
Dlala Imidlalo Yengqondo
ULuka Skywalker wasebenzisa amandla ... kungani ungakwazi? Umcabango uyithuluzi elinamandla futhi ongayisebenzisa ekusebenzeni kwakho.
Uma ngabe uke wakhuphuka phakathi komhlangano othakazelisayo (ephupha ngosuku lokuzilibazisa ogwini), usuvele wazi ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani. Umzimba wakho uthanda umsebenzi (ngempela!). Kungumqondo wakho yinkinga, ngakho-ke kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi kunesizathu esihle sokuzivocavoca. Nakhu ukuthi ungasebenzisa kanjani ingqondo yakho ngaphezu kwamandla wemisebenzi:
- Yenza isivumelwano nawe. Uzozivocavoca imizuzu engu-15 futhi uma usengafuni ngempela ukuqhubeka, khona-ke ungayeka. Izikhathi ezingu-9 kokungu-10 uzoqhubeka.
- Zinike umvuzo. Uma uqedela ukuqeqeshwa kwakho, zinike okuthile okuhle. Izicathulo ezintsha, ihora ukufunda incwadi yakho oyintandokazi, ukusikhipha, njll.
- Buka ngeso lengqondo . Abagijimi bavame ukuzibona ngeso lengqondo ngokwabo ngokuwina umncintiswano ukuze baqhume. Ungenza okufanayo ngokuzifanela uhamba ngokuzivocavoca kwakho kusukela ekuqaleni kuze kube sekupheleni. Uzizwa kanjani uma uqedile? Uhambe kangaki amamayela noma ugijima? Buka ngeso lengqondo impumelelo yakho futhi wenze kwenzeke.
- Zizenza. Zizenza sengathi usemncintiswaneni, futhi uma uphola uthole amadola ayizigidi. Zenze sengathi ugijima ukubamba ibhasi, noma ukuthi uma uzenza ikhaya ngesikhathi esithile, i-Nike izoba khona ukuze ikubeke kwenye yezimakethe zabo 'Just Do It'. Uzoba ocebile nodumile. Noma yini eyenza ufune ukuhambisa.
- Ukusebenza izinto ngaphandle. Into enhle mayelana nokugijima (noma okunye ukuvivinya umzimba) ukuthi kukunika isikhathi esicacile sokucabanga ngezinkinga lapho ubhekene nazo. Sebenzisa isikhathi sakho sokuzivocavoca ukuze usebenze ngezinkinga . Uyomangala imiphumela!
Ukushintsha indlela yakho yokuphila ukufaka ukuzivocavoca akuyona umsebenzi olula futhi into ebaluleke kakhulu ozoyenza ishintshe isimo sakho sengqondo. Ukucabanga ngokuzivocavoca njengesibopho ngeke neze kukugqugquzele ukukwenza. Esikhundleni salokho, phatha ukuzivocavoca njengendlela yokuphumula osukwini olucindezelayo, umvuzo womzimba osebenze kanzima kuwe usuku lonke futhi njengento efanelwe umvuzo ekugcineni.